If he does in fact "love me" then why would he do the following from an Intj standpoint:
- talk to me about dating my girlfriends/ date my girlfriends while liking me
- talk to me about other short relationships he has been in while in them
- in college when playing a stupid game with friends where we had to kiss did he get all weird and say.. that would be like kissing my sister
Why didn't he just stick his neck out like he did with the other girls? Is it because there is more invested?
We have a weird history where we actually starting talking when he had a girlfriend. But he initiated the conversations big time in the beginning and I got the vibe that he was interested. The lines kind of gets fuzzy from there b/c we worked together(he was my boss at first) and started hanging out with the same group of people.
I get vibes on and off that he likes me, but then I see what he has done to other girls he is interested in and I contradict myself. He treats me completely different than them.