I can't say I'm very bothered by indeciseveness and disorganization, I've gotten pretty good at not putting myself in situations where I am relying on people who may not pull through. Always a plan B, C, and D in mind.
As for adding something to the list:
- People who think that because I'm arguing actively about a point, its because i'm somehow emotionally attached to it. No, I am pointing out the logical inconsistencies in your argument to discuss an idea, not because my feelings were hurt.