(I only skimmed the OP)
it seems a bit silly to have such a long list of pet peeves, isn't the "pet" supposed to designate some sort of special but not very serious place in your heart?
The only thing I'll consider a real pet peeve is something specific (a single example will provide all necessary characteristics of the peeve) which bothers you but which can't be bundled together with other bothers according to cause.
Inefficiency does not qualify as a pet peeve. Inefficiency is more like a globally prominent disease that's transmitted by sharing a workspace with the infected.
examples of pet peeves:
Palestinian scarves on black guys
Final Fantasy X posters