a whole crapload of lingerie
I think it's kinda cute, too!!!
WTF is this "acts of service" stuff?
I have an ISTJ for that. I make jokes about how INTJforum is full of ISTJs, you sure you people aren't ISTJs?
WTF is this "acts of service" stuff?
I have an ISTJ for that. I make jokes about how INTJforum is full of ISTJs, you sure you people aren't ISTJs?
I do think the love languages thing is a little overworshipped round these parts, though.
He'll find my phone for me (seriously, I *suck* at finding things and I'm constantly losing that thing!), again, and again...and again, without complaining, just rolling his eyes at me and with an amused smile on his face.
I can go on..but let's not
Last time we went out for dinner, I offered to share the bill, and he replied: "I'd rather like a blow job." Does that count?
I once bought a whole crapload of lingerie and anonymously sent a piece to her in the mail every few weeks over the course of a year. (No, I'm not a stalker, she was my girlfriend )
See, we can be romantic!
I don't like them much either. I just need an intellectual framework to illuminate the waters before I can navigate in them , and until Blackwater writes a condensed version of his first book, love languages is all I've got on love.
Can you iron my shirts? The ball game is on.Oh, I'm a big acts of service person--it's a lot easier than saying all the gushy stuff. Acts of Service: They're not just for SJs anymore.
There i was thinking, awwww that is so sweet and then i looked at the card.
Classic . Romance needs a sense of humour.
Can you iron my shirts? The ball game is on.
I do all 5, but I prefer Quality Time or Physical Touch above the rest. I kinda suck at Gift Giving though.
You are helping me out! I'll totally appreciate it.Yeah, no. I like to do things that help people out, but highly resent being the martyr while someone else kicks their feet up and does nothing.
INTJ Romance:
*serious, embarrassed face*
*quiet voice, flat affect*
"I...like...you. A lot."
INTJ Romance:
*serious, embarrassed face*
*quiet voice, flat affect*
"I...like...you. A lot."
I think I do the kissy thing first then admit... At least you can get the words out.