I don't act the way I do on here, in real life. Unless what I read of you says I can let go of my public persona. (Cold, not mean, just apparently something that says leave me alone.) Then we go to the possible friend material mask. And if I still don't pick up anything odd, I may let you in to see the real me.
Fortunately children and animals don't notice it. And I can't help but let it go around them. Since they are usually playing games with me, or climbing on me within a minute or two.