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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Ah, yep. My INTJ friend is so deep and caring, but he only shows it with certain people. I felt like we had to get past this wall for us to be friends. I used to friend stalk him relentlessly because he wouldn't just be my friend like a normal person. He would be all cold and aloof, but it just made me try harder. I used to bug the shit out of him. Invite myself to do things with him. But, now we've been friends for like 11 years and he is one of my two best friends in the entire world. He is very wise and he seems to appreciate me in spite of and even because of my craziness.


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    All people are interesting, once you get past the first couple of masks we all wear.
    This is something I've only learned very recently.
    "There's no need to be embarrassed about it, Mr. Spock. It happens to the birds and the bees!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Okay, here's something I'd like to know about both INFJ's and INTJ's. With many of them, I get this feeling that deep deep deep down inside there is this well of sadness. But, INXJ's are so composed and disciplined that they rarely ever display this to the outside world. Am I imagining things?
    Yes.
    -Carefully taking sips from the Fire Hose of Knowledge

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    Quote Originally Posted by poppy View Post
    I used to get that question all the time from, oddly enough, an INFJ. I think we just give off those vibes, maybe it's because INXJs tend to be so inexpressive and contemplative. I think I'm actually much happier than most people realize. Of course, everyone has their dark times. And the few sad bits and pieces rarely do see the light of day.

    (Extra tip, to anyone who is wondering, don't go rooting around looking for those bits and pieces. We'll let you see em when we're good and ready, and at that point you can rest assured that we love you.)
    I'm probably just projecting or some shit. I honestly don't understand INXJ's a lot of the time. But, I keep trying.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Biaxident View Post
    All people are interesting, once you get past the first couple of masks we all wear.
    Hey, I like INFP's, too. I just don't know any.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Haphazard View Post
    Yes.
    Haha. I love the INTJ honesty.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    I honestly don't understand INXJ's a lot of the time. But, I keep trying.
    On behalf of INXJs, I thank you for your noble efforts
    "There's no need to be embarrassed about it, Mr. Spock. It happens to the birds and the bees!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Haha. I love the INTJ honesty.
    *bows*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Haphazard View Post
    *bows*
    And the brevity.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Okay, here's something I'd like to know about both INFJ's and INTJ's. With many of them, I get this feeling that deep deep deep down inside there is this well of sadness. But, INXJ's are so composed and disciplined that they rarely ever display this to the outside world. Am I imagining things?
    It's true. But I deal with it on my own and NEVER let anyone see that part of me. But I guess an ENTP like yourself noticed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by joslynk View Post
    It's true. But I deal with it on my own and NEVER let anyone see that part of me. But I guess an ENTP like yourself noticed.
    I like secrets. Finding them. Making them. Some people don't realize how much you can hide yourself in the open. Part of what is nice with starting to trust someone is being able to crack the door a bit.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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