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    ^

    *points to thread title*

    You two try to control your fantasizing about me, please!

    The rest of you may continue.
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    ^

    *points to thread title*
    You two try to control your fantasizing about me, please!
    The rest of you may continue.
    Isn't a fleshlight what you, an NT female, is looking for in a relationship?
    (Totally apropos!)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    Isn't a fleshlight what you, an NT female, is looking for in a relationship?
    (Totally apropos!)
    Perhaps we should start a Female NTs and Women/Sextoys thread.

    That should start tongues wagging! (amongst other things...)
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Chemistry, honesty, intimacy/loyalty, respect, to be treated as an individual, not just as a woman, to be accepted the way I am and loved for it...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ListNinja View Post
    Hi everyone,

    I am new to the forum and am trying to find out more information about female NTs and what they need both in terms of initial attraction and for a relationship to work long term.

    I have been discussing with a couple female NT friends and this is what we have come up with so far:

    (1) The man has to be as smart as the female NT and capable of holding his own in intellectual debates
    (2) The man can not be a pushover emotionally - some female NTs have a tendency to exploit weakness in their partners and can become controlling (especially NTJs). Female NTs will not respect a man who will allow them to do this.
    (3) NTs seem to be attracted to men with a high degree of talent, sense of adventure, and/or spontaneity... but we are not sure if these relationships will work long term.

    Thoughts?
    (1) Yep
    (2) Yep (and for whatever reason, I seem to attract the emotionally weak/dependent!)
    (3) Oh, I like talent. Ha.

    *(3) In all seriousness I've mulled over this question- whether adventure/spontaneity is necessary, and if yes, to what degree? Well, I don't know, but I know that he can't be spontanaeity-averse. Whomever I end up with, I know he can't be more "P" than me (Disaster). Yet, he cannot be a rigid "J"...I have yet to meet a good in-between (I like a guy who can make decisions yet bend to my whims, I mean, good ideas). Maybe I'm naive, but I/E is negotiable; just so long as it isn't, like, > 80% either end of the spectrum ...If that makes sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    Perhaps we should start a Female NTs and Women/Sextoys thread.

    HA!! Do.

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    (1) The man has to be as smart as the female NT and capable of holding his own in intellectual debates
    (2) The man can not be a pushover emotionally - some female NTs have a tendency to exploit weakness in their partners and can become controlling (especially NTJs). Female NTs will not respect a man who will allow them to do this.
    (3) NTs seem to be attracted to men with a high degree of talent, sense of adventure, and/or spontaneity... but we are not sure if these relationships will work long term.
    1 = very true, but with the caveat that I recognize that smarts aren't necessarily going to manifest themselves in other people the way they manifest in me personally.

    2 = yeah, I think. I think for myself I would reword this simply as 'emotionally intelligent' - it's a big deal for me to be with someone who isn't a moron about feeeeeeelings.

    3 - yes, yes, yes. I need adventurous/spontaneous people to balance me out. My INFP boyfriend is very useful for this, seeing as he appears to be allergic to planning anything.
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    Basically everything Kangirl said, QFT. I don't need a guy to be smart at the same things I am (math and physics and typical NT junk). Writers are cool. Anyone insightful. Actually, yes, any form of talent is good, including sports if you're not the stereotypical jock type (not that that sort of guy would go for me anyways). Emotional intelligence is a plus, so is spontaneity, but I don't expect someone to be much better at those than me. I like a certain degree of awkwardness.

    Being full of yourself is a complete turn-off. Now I know that most women would say that, but they then go for those guys, over and over again. I won't.

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    Somebody mentioned the occasional intercourse or is it too lowly materialistic to be talked about?
    I mean except for immature comments maybe.
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    To sum up Kangirl and sonata...

    We need someone on our level. That we respect.

    ((and that respect us, but that goes without saying...))

    The end.

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