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    i said 'bring'

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    Quote Originally Posted by thisGuy View Post
    i said 'bring'
    You ENTPs are so difficult. This is why I can't take you guys to nice threads!
    "There's no need to be embarrassed about it, Mr. Spock. It happens to the birds and the bees!"

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    such a type-profiler...why do you have to be like that

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    thisGuy can you elaborate further? I'm not too familiar with the whole P Ne Ni thing..

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    Sometimes I think I might be a social INTJ. I think I have just seen the importance of developing a social side and like a true INTJ, have mastered it.

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    been there, done that, it comes and goes. It's gone for now.

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    These little social rituals that Poppy was talking about work but here's a thing I sometimes struggle with: I cannot start any 'smalltalk'. I hate sitting at dinnertables with people that aren't that very familiar to me and no interesting conversation going on. I will have nothing to say. When a silence comes up, don't look to me for a new opening of conversation....

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    What you need to do is get an ENTJ sidekick and spend alot of time with them.

    ENTJs that are highly extroverted will have awesome social skills, but will still stay true the Ni and Te.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Luet View Post
    These little social rituals that Poppy was talking about work but here's a thing I sometimes struggle with: I cannot start any 'smalltalk'. I hate sitting at dinnertables with people that aren't that very familiar to me and no interesting conversation going on. I will have nothing to say. When a silence comes up, don't look to me for a new opening of conversation....
    Yeah, I've never really been able to do small talk. Once someone else gets it going, I'm good to join in (assuming it's not a subject that's totally off my radar). Actually for small talk, pretty much anybody makes a good sidekick. Personally I get pretty bold when I'm backed by someone, and once they start it off I can even take the lead. Some groups just don't have a good dynamic though, so I've learned to just forget about it if I'm not going to be able to get into the conversation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luet View Post
    These little social rituals that Poppy was talking about work but here's a thing I sometimes struggle with: I cannot start any 'smalltalk'. I hate sitting at dinnertables with people that aren't that very familiar to me and no interesting conversation going on. I will have nothing to say. When a silence comes up, don't look to me for a new opening of conversation....
    Really hate small talk, always makes me extremely uncomfortable (for the longest time, I couldn't understand why anybody would want to waste time on it). Still driving me crazy, although not as much as it used to.

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