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    "Everything in its place" fill's Avatar
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    Default ENTPs & Relationships: ISFJ or INFJ?

    I've got an ENTP friend who's in a long distance relationship with an unhealthy ISFJ who she's said is at sometimes suicidal. She's really struggling with what to do as he's wanting a long commitment that she's not sure she's interested in.

    Then I came along. And while I'm giving her counsel, we're starting to show interest in each other.

    To ESTPs: In general, what are your experiences with ISFJs and INFJs in relationships?

    To everyone: How does one deal with an unhealthy person and ending a relationship?
    "Poor bastard. Wait 'till he sees the bats. "
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    So you pulled the "nice friend prank" and stole that guy his ENTP ?
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    Well for one it's a long distance relationship. Your ENTP friend should have a talk with the ISFJ and explain how she wants something real, and that it isn't working out. Your ENTP friend should explain that she isn't interested in a long distance commitment and that she, again, wants something real. The only issue is how unhealthy this person is...

    I've had experience in this area. Just gradually break it off. Avoid contact with the person ever again if possible.

    And have fun with your new ENTP!
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    In what area you dont have experience ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    And have fun with your new ENTP toy!
    Fixed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    The only issue is how unhealthy this person is...
    Yeah, it really is. It makes me extremely cautious as I have an utter incapability of taking things away from people- especially if they're in this state.

    So you pulled the "nice friend prank" and stole that guy his ISFJ ?
    Hah, no. We're actually interested in each other regardless of her relationship status. I don't pull pranks, and I refute egos. Damn those things...
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    Quote Originally Posted by fill View Post
    Hah, no. We're actually interested in each other regardless of her relationship status. I don't pull pranks, and I refute egos. Damn those things...
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    Quote Originally Posted by fill View Post
    To ESTPs: In general, what are your experiences with ISFJs relationships?
    Married one. In March, it'll be 15 years.


    OOPS: Just saw that this was for ESTP...I am ENTP...I went off the original thread title.

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    Neither for me...
    Between that cigarillo and sticking my finger down my throat to see if I could DT, I feel like puking RN.

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    I dated an ISFJ, and my best friend and chief social rival in high school was an ISFJ. Type has little to do with compatibility, as long as both parties work with each other instead of clinging to their own way.

    That being said, IxFJs don't always seem as willing to work with you. It can be their way or the highway. So neither for me, as well.

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