Besides it's just a step-daughter/step-father issue. I have never met someone in my life who was so stubborn and damn annoying. He told my mother that his mother told him that photographers can't take pictures of Black people because the lenses can't see them, therefore you need to buy special lenses specifically designed for Black people. And I am not making this shit up.
Me: "The sun is mostly made out of helium & hydrogen."
Him: "That's a fallacy!"
Him: "It's fire and orange! Gases are clear!"
Me: "Wait a minute.."
Him: "I know that I'm right and you're wrong!"
Whenever I see him I have the sudden urge to strangle him. What's the best possible way to keep the peace? As of now I avoid him or else we get into an argument when he says something stupid
I'm an INTP & he is an ESFJ. My god D: it just seems disastrous. I think that he is trying to bond with me because he has started to taunt me... Which I do not like at all. As a consequence, I am beginning to mock him (without doing it on purpose). My brother who is an ENFJ was laughing and telling me how he told my mother to warn our new step-dad to not tease me because I am starting to snap at him. :'( Hilfe
Wow. I've been mentioned in an OP...
And THAT, my friends, is one of the reasons ESFJs are so hard to be around for me. You have good hearts, and I respect that, but being around you for more than five minutes will make me go bat-scheisse bonkers.
Now, for the help: DO NOT talk politics, religion, today's trends, or science to him. It would be best to Avoid altogether, but that is nigh impossible. I reccommend talking about 'Safe' topics, such as movies. Almost everyone loves movies. Oh, and food. Mmm, food.
Inside tread all of the statements like the Black People Lenses like a hilarious joke, or childish Naivete. Don't take it seriously. If confronted avoid all unsafe topics and attempt to steer the converstion as hard as possible to something like food.
(This advice probably sucks because my Fe is horrible, but I'm trying...)
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I'm interested in what you percieve me to be. Johari/Nohari
I don't doubt it. I would just take the high road. The sensor/feeler combination puts them at a disadvantage. I have known people just like this guy. One in particular used to do petty childish things to me--a grown man, 50+. I shrugged it off as though nothing happened. We seem to get on fine now. If he still harbors those thoughts feelings, so what? It's in his head, he can keep it. I'm fine. Doesn't bother me in the slightest.
Don't get carried away. I'm probably not talking about who you think. This guy is somewhat related to me.
Good point I'll just continue to avoid him.
Between that cigarillo and sticking my finger down my throat to see if I could DT, I feel like puking RN.