LOL. How did "gender" find its way into this thread? The comment about "being a guy" went right over my head. I'm a guy. The INTJ I conversated with is a guy. As for the bear in our discussion, he was also a guy. No females.
But, anyways, yeah - I suspect there are some other INTJ's within my (somewhat small) network, but we don't seem to want to put in the work to get to know each other like that. We're content to just keep our distance and have a good laugh now and then. It'd be cool to get closer to them.
I love how INTJs question everything that is considered refutable (especially school and authority figures)
SJ: I need to join the military
INTJ: why would you want to do that?
SJ: to serve my country
INTJ: what's the point of that
SJ: I'm supposed to, it's the responsible thing to do
INTJ: that's what Hitler, Stalin, Mussolini, Napoleon, and Ghenghis Khan all said
SJ: well what else am I supposed to do then
INTJ: I dunno, try something where you won't die
SJ: don't you care about your country
INTJ: lol no
SJ: what do you care about then
INTJ: money mutha fucka