Why don't they love mee? What do the ENFPs have that I don't? [...] I just don't understand why they would prefer an ENFP!
I'm an INTJ and the girls I usually have affairs with are either ENTP or ISFJ. I never understood this cliché about ENFP. I understand that they're lovely and so on, but - maybe it's just me - I'm not attracted to "girlies".
What I love about ENTP is their sarcasm, this confronting trait, their outrageousness, that devilish grin. I generally love strong women, makes me wanna push them against the wall while I kiss them.
I have dated a string of INTJ females and its not hard to get them into me, you just have to be dependable and reliable and willing to suffer through the Ni-Neurosis but, thats easy enough for me, I share the Ni-neurosis so I get it and I am patient... I am about to engage in a relationship with yet another INTJ female I just met, she might possibly be an ENTJ actually... something about me apparently pulls in NT women or T women in general. Its kind of weird. I dated an ISFJ for 8 years and the differences are astounding.