When thinking about him makes me smile, when I think he is as smart as me, when my heart beats harder if I see him, when I plan a future for us, instead of just for me, when I imagine he is old and decrepit and feel tenderness towards that old version of him.
Haha! I find myself doing the same (old fart) thing!
For me it is usually when I realize I've spent (almost) every day with him for at least three weeks and I still find myself thinking about him when he's not around. ; ) I usually get bored with people about that time.
This. . . . . when I actually pick up the phone myself and I am not currently on fire.
Is this an INTJ thing? LOL! I am very verbal so many people think I'm extraverted, but I actually checked my messages today and a close friend threatened to come over and check on me because I haven't returned her calls in four weeks (my bad)! Mostly because I just don't care enough to recharge my phone regularly and so it's usually dead! LOL