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  • INTP

    6 9.52%
  • INTJ

    2 3.17%
  • ENTJ

    6 9.52%
  • ENTP

    7 11.11%
  • INFP

    9 14.29%
  • INFJ

    8 12.70%
  • ENFP

    9 14.29%
  • ENFJ

    12 19.05%
  • ISTJ

    0 0%
  • ISFJ

    3 4.76%
  • ESTJ

    1 1.59%
  • ESFJ

    0 0%
  • ISTP

    0 0%
  • ISFP

    0 0%
  • ESTP

    0 0%
  • ESTP

    0 0%
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  1. #71
    Nips away your dignity Fluffywolf's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    I think it highlights how far both types have to go and divorce themselves from their preferred [and very, very different] natural mental/emotional habitats in order to connect. Although I'm sure in overcoming that difficulty, you learn so much to carry over into other aspects of your life. I think that's the essence of any of those pedagogue relationships: the farther you have to travel, the more tools you'll pick up along the way.
    [YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-s08eW5AQ6g"][/YOUTUBE]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    [YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-s08eW5AQ6g"][/YOUTUBE]
    You haz solved the puzzle! The ENFJs are ours!



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    Hey Fluff,
    You don't want to be emotionally dumped on and you consider ENFJs too volitile to date, right?

    When in the presence of INTPs, I become more calm and collected; I'd even say grounded. I attempt to utilize my logic more because I want to adapt to have an intelligent conversation with this person. After they see I don't blow them away with strong emotions, and I'm capable of some rational thought, they'll usually let me in with their own feelings and we can have the best conversation two people are capible of having.

    We really just want to love and be loved. The hallmark of all NFs. If we can get somebody intellectually brilliant to share that with, it would be amazing.

    To Pink: Don't feel too bad Pink, they've just never actually been with one, so they don't yet understand.
    Love is the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    I think it highlights how far both types have to go and divorce themselves from their preferred [and very, very different] natural mental/emotional habitats in order to connect. Although I'm sure in overcoming that difficulty, you learn so much to carry over into other aspects of your life. I think that's the essence of any of those pedagogue relationships: the farther you have to travel, the more tools you'll pick up along the way.
    Jock, with all due respect, I think that's far too strong a word. I don't have to "divorce" myself from Fe in order to utilize my Ti. You can feel strongly about something and still be logical at the same time, or is the NF incorrect in that assumption?
    Love is the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fuzzcrossed View Post
    Jock, with all due respect, I think that's far too strong a word. I don't have to "divorce" myself from Fe in order to utilize my Ti. You can feel strongly about something and still be logical at the same time, or is the NF incorrect in that assumption?
    Yeah Jock! What the hell, can't you multi-task?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fuzzcrossed View Post
    Hey Fluff,
    You don't want to be emotionally dumped on and you consider ENFJs too volitile to date, right?
    Not afraid to be dumped on at all, and I consider myself too volatile in their presence.

    The differences between me and ENFJ's just seem to big to consider a relationship. I'll love them as friends though.

    I had a very short fling with an ENFJ by the way. Whenever we tried to reach consenus with something. One pressures, the other pushes away. It was like a tug of war half the time. It took a lot of effort to compromise, for both of us. I must say, she was a particularly stubborn ENFJ, but that's probably all the more reason why I was attracted to her in the first place. And me being quite stubborn as well, it was a ticking time bomb. xD
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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    Or not actual INTPs.

    I doubt the number is any larger than the amount here, when adjusted for membership size.

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    I have two INTP friends who seem very attracted to ENFJs and INFPs in particular. It has happened enough times to be considered a trend!!! and the attraction seems intense too Particularly with the INFP
    ... couldn't drag me away

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    Željko Ražnatovic: do you want heir's?
    WildHorses: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    Željko Ražnatovic: to carry your genealogical code??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    [YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-s08eW5AQ6g"][/YOUTUBE]

    (I once saw a movie with a dog in a diving suit but couldn't find it, this'll do though. :P )
    THIS is such a sweet clip.... I Just LOVEEEEE that dog!!!!!! TOO CUTE!!!!!!!!
    What type do you reckon he is??!!
    ... couldn't drag me away

    Željko Ražnatovic: argus
    Željko Ražnatovic: do you want heir's?
    WildHorses: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    Željko Ražnatovic: to carry your genealogical code??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    Generally smart, open, direct and honest people.
    this, with a preference for mild to moderate Is over Es. And sane over insane.
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    A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us. To live is to be slowly born.
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