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  • ENTJ - Always faithful

    12 12.00%
  • ENTJ - Occationally been unfaithful

    1 1.00%
  • ENTJ - Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • ENTJ - Never faithful

    1 1.00%
  • ENTP - Always faithful

    16 16.00%
  • ENTP - Occationally been unfaithful

    9 9.00%
  • ENTP - Rarely faithful

    1 1.00%
  • ENTP - Never faithful

    1 1.00%
  • INTP - Always faithful

    40 40.00%
  • INTP - Occationally been unfaithful

    2 2.00%
  • INTP - Rarely faithful

    1 1.00%
  • INTP - Never faithful

    0 0%
  • INTJ - Always faithful

    14 14.00%
  • INTJ - Occationally been unfaithful

    2 2.00%
  • INTJ - Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • INTJ - Never faithful

    0 0%
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Thread: xNTx fidelity

  1. #81
    Courage is immortality Valiant's Avatar
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    Oh, you so wouldn't!!!

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    ENTP have turned into very averagy non NT dogs...

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    Quote Originally Posted by tinkerbell View Post
    ENTP have turned into very averagy non NT dogs...
    That or ENTP's are just the only ones looking at it from a broader perspective than the given question.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katsuni View Post
    That or ENTP's are just the only ones looking at it from a broader perspective than the given question.
    That or I am naked right now ! ... No wait ..
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    Quote Originally Posted by entropie View Post
    That or I am naked right now ! ... No wait ..
    now now, we'll have none of that on this thread... go and put some pants on

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    Quote Originally Posted by tinkerbell View Post
    now now, we'll have none of that on this thread... go and put some pants on
    Yeu mean... pants... aren't optional? >.>

    I'll uhm... brb... I need to go... do... something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katsuni View Post
    That they are, 100% always faithful so far. Unfortunately, this's an open poll reviewed by one's peers... it can be viewed as a contest "the INTP's are winning! I can't let myself bring them down!" or as a matter of honour, fear, or several other reasons. Sadly, it means that the answers presented are not neccesarily 100% accurate, as some people won't consider themselves cheating, others will be unwilling to admit to such.
    Or, alternatively, the people who voted that they're not cheating really aren't cheating.

    also please for the love of god use the correct vowels.. the rest of that was a major pain to read

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    Problem in NT forums, we treat infidelity as if it's a matter of 100% choice. While deep inside, we probably envy SFs who can easily do it. I think we're getting more hypocritical here than we should be.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katsuni View Post
    The point is that this's a prime example of someone being so excessively insistant on a fairy tale relationship, that rather than work towards an understanding, they'd rather ditch it entirely and give up the second a problem arises.
    I wouldn't say I bail at the first sign of trouble. I've been more than willing to talk out problems and inadequacies, and attempt to work things out. I believe that if I don't take steps to maintain honest communication, infidelity is as much my fault as it is the SO's. It's more that I bail after the ship has capsized (SO skips straight to the strange).

    The suggestion of a 'open' relationship is one that's generally mentioned from the start, so before it's even really begun as a relationship, and they've truly had time to learn more about the other person, they've already given up all hope and called it quits.
    I suppose I should clarify. It takes me a very long time to actually get to a point of committing to someone. I will concede that it's highly unlikely by that point that this suggestion would occur.

    In the beginning however, "open relationship" very simply means that they are not looking for the same thing as I. This may change in the future, and it may not. In either case, I'm happy to continue as friends, and I don't rule them out from ever being a possibility, but I'm not investing anything at that point.

    In this case, they aren't being unfaithful from the start, they're just wary after being burned time and time again without deviation. A relationship is built on trust, however, if that trust has been broken time and again, over and over, 100% of the time, that trust is not given freely anymore and must then be earned. Getting pissy over someone being cautious is understandable, but also isn't really that fair to the person who got burnt either. They have every right to be a bit wary of suitors claiming "zomg trust me I wubz uu!"
    There's no commitment at this stage, so there's no wrong to be done yet. That's just wise caution.

    I agree with the rest of your post, in that communication is quite vital. Of course no relationship is perfect, and they all require work. It's just that if, after taking all precautions, an SO still cheats, I don't see the point of carrying on with what is apparently a charade, and cut losses.
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    Never cheated, never will. I'd be stupid to do so because I have a hard time getting into relationships as it is. Why would I want to throw it away based on a mere infatuation? And if I didn't want to commit to that person, I wouldn't enter that kind of relationship to begin with.
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