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  • ENTJ - Always faithful

    12 12.00%
  • ENTJ - Occationally been unfaithful

    1 1.00%
  • ENTJ - Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • ENTJ - Never faithful

    1 1.00%
  • ENTP - Always faithful

    16 16.00%
  • ENTP - Occationally been unfaithful

    9 9.00%
  • ENTP - Rarely faithful

    1 1.00%
  • ENTP - Never faithful

    1 1.00%
  • INTP - Always faithful

    40 40.00%
  • INTP - Occationally been unfaithful

    2 2.00%
  • INTP - Rarely faithful

    1 1.00%
  • INTP - Never faithful

    0 0%
  • INTJ - Always faithful

    14 14.00%
  • INTJ - Occationally been unfaithful

    2 2.00%
  • INTJ - Rarely faithful

    0 0%
  • INTJ - Never faithful

    0 0%
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Thread: xNTx fidelity

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    Senior Member Cypocalypse's Avatar
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    It's an irony how the concept of cheating can be so articulately explained, and yet NTs are the archetypes that are least likely to do it.

    That's why we only put premium on sexual cheating. It's tangible, recognizable, and keeps things simple. I think NTs tend to dwell to much on the subtle things that can easily be overlooked.

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    Katsuni, the reason why sexual infidelity gets all the attention is because if you go confide into a best friend about your problems or talk to a professor about an ethical or scientific conundrum you won't accidentally get children out of wedlock.

    This may be an outdated idea because of the use of contraceptives but the cultural belief is so ingrained in people's minds that it's still there.
    -Carefully taking sips from the Fire Hose of Knowledge

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    ENTP's seem the real dogs of the Rationalists....

    OK tiny sample so far....

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    Is it a matter of restraint, or a matter of incompetency of actually cheating?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cypocalypse View Post
    Is it a matter of restraint, or a matter of incompetency of actually cheating?
    ROFLMAO....

    are you saying NT's (not entps) are not socially dynamic enough to put themslves out there multiple times at once?

    LOL never thought about it that way (I find one relationship at a time more than enough chaois)

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    I have gazillions of SF friends who make it look that way. Lol!

    Then the dark side of the force consumes me. And then that sexy NF chick who reads Neil Gaiman, buys toys, etc. started talking to me.

    Now tell me, how can i ignore that? Lol!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cypocalypse View Post
    Is it a matter of restraint, or a matter of incompetency of actually cheating?
    I won't speak for the introverts, but I find it hard to believe an ENT couldn't competently cheat.


    But again, cheating isn't for me.

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    LOL I have no idea who Neil Gaiman - Ok SF author.... looks like a writter/musicial friend of mine...

    I could resist, I do like NF's usually, so whackey (ENFPs).

    But I could resist, I've never ever even felt tempted to go outside.... I guess there are no garuantees with anyone but I really wonder what would happen if I was tempted...

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    I've never cheated and would never cheat. But, I can't really turn off my flirt switch which has caused some issues in the past with a few guys I've dated.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Haphazard View Post
    Katsuni, the reason why sexual infidelity gets all the attention is because if you go confide into a best friend about your problems or talk to a professor about an ethical or scientific conundrum you won't accidentally get children out of wedlock.

    This may be an outdated idea because of the use of contraceptives but the cultural belief is so ingrained in people's minds that it's still there.
    Yeah, that does make more sense. Nice to see how "logical thinking creatures" we really are >.>;;

    Honestly I don't consider humans to be too much above normal animals, for the 'capacity for thought' we supposedly have, we virtually never actually USE it.

    If we assume one's sterile for whotever reason, then really, is sexual infidelity magically 'less bad'? In theory it SHOULD be, in practice it's generally not considered so for some reason, except when mixed children exist, in which case that seems to be the biggest problem for probably obvious reasons there.


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