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[MBTI General] relationships xNTJ's with xNTP

Shimmy

New member
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SEXY
I find ENTJs too controlling. But a not too introverted INTJ is awesome.
 

JocktheMotie

Habitual Fi LineStepper
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NOOOOOOO!

The reasoning is a tad bizarre. You'd think in terms of balance, putting Fe-tards and Fi-tards in a romantic, intimate setting is recipe for disaster and is possibly responsible for a genocide or two in history. But IME there's something about those ETJs that I can't get enough of. The whole Te-dom style is tremendously entertaining.
 

Salomé

meh
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Sep 25, 2008
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10,527
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
5w4
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sx/sp
The reasoning is a tad bizarre. You'd think in terms of balance, putting Fe-tards and Fi-tards in a romantic, intimate setting is recipe for disaster and is possibly responsible for a genocide or two in history. But IME there's something about those ETJs that I can't get enough of. The whole Te-dom style is tremendously entertaining.
It's because you like to be dominated.
 

JocktheMotie

Habitual Fi LineStepper
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It's because you like to be dominated.

Not really. Tends to not work out that way at all, even though I make it seem so at times as a joke :D If anything, I like the idea of someone who values their independence and force of will as much as I do, but orients it a bit more externally, which I have trouble doing. Our approaches are similar, just aimed in different directions, which I think gives us tremendous balance when dealing with things.
 
L

Lasting_Pain

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As I have stated previously, ENTJ rocks. Just have to find me one, or better yet, they have to find me.
 

tcda

psicobolche
Joined
Nov 17, 2009
Messages
1,292
MBTI Type
intp
Enneagram
5
I would take ENFJ above ENTJ. Trouble is I have very strong opinions, so if mine and the ENTJ's opinions aren't the same as mine or they don't manage to win me over to their worldview, I will find their opinionated nature unbearable and they will find my constant opposition unbearable.

ENFJ though, epically manipulates me, bring it on! :tongue:
 

Amethyst

¡MI TORTA!
Joined
May 9, 2010
Messages
2,191
MBTI Type
ESTP
Enneagram
7w8
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so/sx
women almost always marry their dads....:D you can scream all you like but xNTJ here you come :p

First off, I hate my father. He is an incredibly unhealthy ISTJ.
Secondly, girls who loathe their fathers are most likely to marry guys who are opposite of their fathers...which would be an ENFP, which I'm cool with. I get along with them the most, tied with INTPs.
 

copperfish17

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INTP
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5w4
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sp/so
I would take ENFJ above ENTJ. Trouble is I have very strong opinions, so if mine and the ENTJ's opinions aren't the same as mine or they don't manage to win me over to their worldview, I will find their opinionated nature unbearable and they will find my constant opposition unbearable.

ENFJ though, epically manipulates me, bring it on! :tongue:

I'd take ENFJ over ENTJ too. :yes: I just can't deal very well with opinionated people (I am NOT saying that all ENTJ's are opinionated; an ENFJ is just less likely to be opinionated than an ENTJ, in my opinion).

First off, I hate my father. He is an incredibly unhealthy ISTJ.
Secondly, girls who loathe their fathers are most likely to marry guys who are opposite of their fathers...which would be an ENFP, which I'm cool with. I get along with them the most, tied with INTPs.

Hey, I have an unhealthy ISTJ father too! :D

But nah, I'm not sure if I can take on an ENFP on a regular basis (as a romantic partner; ENFP friends are kewl). ENFP bounciness tends to wear me out after a while.
 
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