The key, it seems, is to continue to tell the ENTP that they must rot in hell, and never to chase them in circles.
Then, the ENTP will continue to show you affection, and chase you in circles.
Then, the INTJ will get sick of the affection and chasing, and barricade themselves in their geeky reclusive place of preference. I don't know what the ENTJ will do. One of you could possibly enlighten me.