I'm going to answer all of these, because all I have to do for the next 5 hours or so is sit in my room and brood until I fall asleep. So here goes
I'm currently majoring in criminal justice, and I'm probably going to end up as a police officer, though I would most certainly take up either forensic psychology or forensic science if there were more jobs available. I want to be able to get a job wherever I end up.
*Friendships with the two genders (just plain gender ratios of who makes up your friend circles/how do you connect with other females/etc.):
I only essentially have two people in my life who I'd call friends (which is why I'm sitting in my room doing nothing haha). One is a boy, and one is a girl. The boy recently became my boyfriend, but I consider him just as much a boyfriend as a best friend.
My biggest paranoia is other people getting into my thoughts uninvited. Years ago when I was at a very mentally unstable point in my life, I was actually convinced people could read my thoughts, and it scared the shit out of me. That's not really an issue these days, but I'm still very grateful that my thoughts are my own, and only my own.
*Feelings re: tattoos/piercings:
I'm a fan of them, simply because I find them aesthetically pleasing. Piercings more so than tattoos, and both very much in moderation.
I call myself atheist with Paganistic tendencies. I do not support or partake in organized religion.
*academic interest areas:
English has always been my forte, but science and psychology fascinate me to no end.
*types of guys you are romantically attracted to (or, i suppose, females, too):
Extraverts. I love extraverts because they make it so easy for me to come out of my shell and just straight up have fun once in a while. It's very refreshing, but afterwards I do always need to recharge.
Not a huge fan of them. At all.
*music (what you listen to/what instruments you play):
As for what I've played, I've played flute and bassoon. Didn't like flute so much, but I adored bassoon, which I played for 6 years. If there's one thing I miss immeasurably about highschool, it's band. Playing music really saved me from myself, I can remember a point when going to band was the only reason I got up in the morning.
As for what I listen to, I'm a huge trance fan, particularly vocal trance. Music has the power to alter my mood/state of mind drastically, and I frequently enjoy taking advantage of that.
*social skills (because we can be all over the map, from the limited previous evidence volunteered by female INTJs on these boards):
My social skills used to be awful until I got a job in a popular amusement park arcade. I've been working there for three years now, and having to deal with people for 8 hours each day really helped improve them. I'm still horrible at making friends though.
Shaky for a while, but good now.
*interest in kids:
I do want kids someday, one or two, far down the line when I'm in a stable, happy marriage.
*how you act when you're in charge or leading something:
I don't lead until everyone I'm working with has proven themselves incompetent, but when I take charge I lay everything down clearly, logically, and organize things to get the job done as well as possible.
Just band. Loved it dearly.
I don't read much, but that's because I have a hard time finding a book I can really get into, but when I do, I'm completely absorbed in it. I've been a huge Lord of the Rings fan for years because of this.
*favorite movies/directors/actors/tv shows etc.:
I like House, Cops, Law & Order, don't really have any favorite directors/actors/movies.
Stupid people. Incompetence, slowness, ignorance, stubbornness, etc.
*how good are you with money:
I'm fairly good with money. I always put 60-80% of my checks in a savings account, I don't make impulse purchases, and I eat as cheaply as possible when I'm out.
*do you feel uncomfortable/out of character in a girly dress and a situation where you have to do the typical Girly Stuff?:
A bit, but I've learned to, for the most part, ignore it.
*how do you dress:
When I'm going to school and don't feel like carrying a purse I wear baggy pants to put all my stuff in. Otherwise I dress in average girl clothes, or boy clothes on a day where I'm feeling lazy.
I'm reading "vice" as "flaw" here so I'll answer based on that. One of my biggest flaws is my debilitating amount of self-criticism. I do it all the time, everything I say and do I criticize over and over again to the point where I feel like an absolute idiot, which depresses me. I also tend to read between lines that don't exist which can get me into awkward social situations if I'm not careful.
*known areas of inter-relational problems:
Not really sure.
*known areas of information acquiring problems (i.e. study methods/tips/areas of weakness/how you use your strengths to gather information):
I wish I could figure this one out. I can't for the life of me figure out how to absorb and retain information that I'm not interested in.
*are you a visual/auditory/interactive/argumentative etc. learner?:
Still don't know this one, wish I did.
*early riser vs. night hawk?:
Night hawk. Almost every night I'm up until 2-3am because I can't fall asleep because my mind will not shut up.
*what do you find endearing:
*who were you in high school:
I was frequently labeled "the kid who hates everyone", which I denied at the time, but now realize was mostly true.
*expressing emotion in front of others:
I avoid it as much as possible.
*gift giving and receiving:
I'm awful at it. I give people gifts by taking them shopping and telling them to pick out something they want. As for what I receive, it doesn't really matter. It's just material after all.
In general, I absolutely hate it. With my significant other it's quite enjoyable.
It's moderately high, probably because I'm a teenager with the raging hormones and all.
*messiness/organization of living environment:
My room is, in short, a dump. My floor is mostly covered with clothes and school books, and all my surfaces are covered with assorted junk.
*time spent daydreaming:
90% of it.
*most crazy plan you schemed and succeeded with:
None really, haha.
Being alone, losing those I love, financial failure.
*hand tool adeptness:
Very good. I love working on cars and I love drawing. I can almost always fix something that someone else cannot.
I like it in moderation.
Germs. If someone doesn't smell right I will avoid them at all costs. If someone coughs/sneezes, I hold my breath. I never touch doorhandles/knobs without covering my hand with my sleeve.
*life goals: Live comfortably, establish a mutual level of deep love/caring with someone.
*things that make you stressed:
Uncertainty. This is why I hate thinking about the future so much, and also why I do it so much. It drives me batshit insane that I don't know exactly how the future will unfold, how people in my life will behave, etc.
*things that make you awkward in situations:
Despite my somewhat improved social skills, I don't always know what to say to someone, or how to enunciate it to sound sincere, even if I am being sincere.
*death: how you deal/what you think about it:
I try not to think about it. Fortunately I haven't had to deal with someone close to me dying yet.
*what do you see as the point of life?: To enjoy it as much as possible.