Disco dancin' Shiva edit: What are yalls thoughts on the whole mind mate thing?
-Loves to discuss abstract concepts
-Loves to discuss concrete concepts
-Argumentative (read: has a backbone. Actually, no, I just like argumentative guys.)
-Arrogant (read: confident)
-Wickedly intelligent
-Has a job or is at least employable
-Is willing to put up with my need to take things slow, emotionally. Really slow.
-Enjoys a fulfilling activity or hobby outside the house.
-Smells really good (it's important to me...)
I'm sure I have all kinds of standards that aren't even conscious, but these are the ones I have in mind at this point in my life. I think if I was looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, they would also be responsible, able to teach me things I don't know about, in touch with their emotions, etc.