Only felt the urge to be in a relationship twice in my life.
My first round with love (infatuation, whatever...I would have done anything for this chick, good thing she didn't know lol) is a high school crush (who doesn't have those). I only talked to her once and she innitiated the conversation. I was so surprised that I just looked at her and could not say anything....
Round two was probably one of the happiest time of my life even though after I confessed that "I liked her," she told me those dreadful phrase that every guy don't want to hear, "I think its a good idea if we stay as friend." I still enjoyed every moment I spent with her and moved on. There was a brief romantic movie scene moment, but I ended pulling away (kind of looked like I was disgusted....jeez I fail when it counts) because I was so confused on wtf is going (i was 19 here) on because she had said earlier that we were just going to be friend.
The feelings I felt during those time has not returned and those feelings were the fuel that droved me to explore being in a relationship.
So I concluded:
For the average looking male INTJ like myself, with no "game," the prospect of love is undeniably grim.