I was offended, but the distinction is helpful. To me, a lawsuit is kind of like a sudoku puzzle-- entertaining, sometimes challenging, takes up time, but a sign that there isn't something more important occupying your time.
You're in charge of a business. That business has a problem and there's nothing more pressing at the moment. To ignore it would be irresponsible, and to be irresponsible would provide a bad model for your present employees.
I think a good leader is able to triage situations. If the problem at hand doesnt really pose a real threat to your interests, than I say let it ride. I think it would have shown more poise on the OPs boyfriends part to have diffused the situation productively, than to have squandered time, energy and resources for some pointless lawsuit. In fact, that demonstrates such an utter lack of priority that Im going to go ahead and say that the BFs a mistyped ESTP.
Originally Posted by Kangirl
I wasn't offended, Norepinephrine. But it's true, us ENTJs do sometimes have a tendency to get rather worked up about stuff.
I think the OP had the courtesy to keep her audience in mind when she posted the thread, and if not should have been ready when they acted to type. Who the hell are you to run interference if someone got offended and says so?