but I have been married to an ISTP for 26 years and he has broken me of my solemnity.
Also because of what I have learned about myself from MBTT,
I have been able to learn to laugh at myself and not take myself - and life - so seriously.
Generally speaking though, I prefer serious.
I have learned to make jokes,
but I have to make it very obvious that I'm joking or else people aren't sure.