3.I am not dicussing such matters with people for which I know that they can't handle it.
The thing is that you can't talk about big picture without using generalities since you need the to create a framework if you are talking about something complex.
Once you have that you can start talking about details and specifics. (if they are important for the topic/conversation)
I definitely do. Then Ss pick at the details saying it isn't possible and miss my point, it gets frustrating.
*Tut* .. By picking apart the details, we could possibly establish new ideas/theories etc.
Nothing is set in stone (even your thinking)
“I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
― Georgia O'Keeffe