Interesting suggestion about ENFP friends. I know exactly what you mean about ENFP's. I do love ENFP's. They are so inspiring, uplifting and positive...BUT...see below
I unfortunately have to continue seeing him at work. He's back from his month long trip tomorrow. I'm just bracing myself and telling myself I deserve better. Lots of positive self-talk. But this has definitely messed with my anxiety/depression.
However, I do realize their potential to uplift us in ways others cant. They are so inspiring when they are being genuine with us. I guess I could stick with female ENFP's, but it's hard as it is for INTJ to make friends, so I dont have any close ENFP friends at the moment.
I have a history of depression/suicide on my dads side of the fam (Dad is also INTJ, but interestingly enough, I've never seen him depressed). I think I def need psychotherapy soon. I don't like my SOLE dependence on the medication right now. I think therapy will help me rely less on the meds although not completely eliminate their need.