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    Default What makes INTJ's feel loved/appreciated?

    Stolen from the SP thread...

    Not the same as how to seduce! (I thought I'd clarify, since there's already a thread like that) You guys are so hard to read sometimes, it's tough to know when you're feeling good in a relationship. I'm genuinely curious and all ears. :popcorn:
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    Yeah, seriously, we're all ears.
    "Stop it, you fuck. Give him some butter."
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    1)Doing my bidding genuinely considering my advice and opinions.
    2) Respecting my need for space
    3) Challenging me in a supportive way (sounds like a contradiction, yes)
    4) Making me mac n' cheese.

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    Unmarked bills.
    Everybody have fun tonight. Everybody Wang Chung tonight.

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    Could you give a hypothetical example of #3? I kind of have a vague idea what this might look like, but have a tough time imagining how one might do that without sounding patronizingly sweet...especially an "f" like me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EffEmDoubleyou View Post
    Unmarked bills.
    But, supposing I'm poor...

    Mac n Cheese is definitely a viable substitute.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MonkeyGrass View Post
    But, supposing I'm poor...
    In that case, gas, grass, or ass.
    Listen to me, baby, you got to understand, you're old enough to learn the makings of a man.

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    I'm nodding...suspicions confirmed...gifts of favorite self- indulgence items are a hit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by poppy View Post
    4) Making me mac n' cheese.
    Done! Well that was easy...
    "Stop it, you fuck. Give him some butter."
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    Quote Originally Posted by MonkeyGrass View Post
    Could you give a hypothetical example of #3? I kind of have a vague idea what this might look like, but have a tough time imagining how one might do that without sounding patronizingly sweet...especially an "f" like me.
    These may apply more specifically to me than to other INTJs.

    Ex 1: Badgering me into going to the city to do something interesting that I wouldn't normally do, but within a certain safe zone of "you only have to try this once and I have it all planned out. See? I made an itinerary and planned it based on the most efficient way to get from event A to event B!".

    Ex 2: Engaging me in debate but not trampling all over my ego or doing a victory dance when I'm in the wrong.

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