The more you write, the more I'm wondering if you're really an ENTP.
You seem so... odd... especially compared to the cheerful crowd on entp.org.
And ENTPs don't usually hold long term grudges like you do, it seems a complete waste of time. Each time you have an opportunity to blow at the ember, you do...
But who cares? We're individuals, so rich with our own self-differences!
Anyway, I thank Greydeath for his calm answer.