Interests in topic much like AO's, would prefer serious discussion over fluff posts (ie. Dave/Nocap's thread).
In real life, I'm less 'present' than I am on the forums in general and towards people I do not know/am not interested in. But in a romantic relationship, my presence tend to exponentially increase. I tike to completely tunnelview my devotion. Even moreso than what I portray on the forums. I tend to be extremely optimistic and I deal with problems and frustrations quickly and most effectively.
I'm sure most of you have an idea of what I portray based on my many posts on the forum. Both serious posts and fluff posts, I am much the same in real life. I like to fool around and play as much as the next guy, but I can switch to complete serious mode if I want or need to just as easily. And even then, when i am playful, I have my serious agenda's as well.
My biggest flaw is trying to influence people. Despite the fact I adore naturality and authenticity, I do love to push boundaries and expand. This can be pressuring and may spark of extremely awkward situations if you are not open or ready for it.
I like to explore and pleasure my Ti with new information. Which can be seen as if I am using you. But that is mainly how I show affection. I don't do this if I don't like you, a lot.
This can be seen that on the enneagram scale, my 5 and 7 are much higher than the rest.
Hypothetically, do you think you could deal with me, and do I interest you enough to date me? I'd love to hear your arguements, types and (honest) opinions!
PS: This is not to seek out a date, but to attain more information based on what type people I may focus on more in the future! I have already admitted that my past relationships have not been particularly successful so this does interest me.