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[MBTI General] Going for the original award, would you date me?

jenocyde

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People care for one. If you aren't sane, of course my reasons are going to appear weird.

riiiiiight. So I don't care because I want him to understand what I am saying to him?

Whatever, this is boring me.
 

Fluffywolf

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Who cares what the reasons are? The end result is the same.
(and btw, I think your reason is weirder :tongue:)

My friends all speak english by the way. Teehee.

Here's a question though, would you still be as bothered by it if I was to live in the US? I can understand your point of view if you were to move here. I would want to learn the language of the country I am in as well, ofcourse. But I think I'm too lazy to learn a language I don't really need, apart from a few phrases and stuff for the fun of it that is.

Edit: ISTJ tact does not seem to be that interesting to me. :D
 

jenocyde

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My friends all speak english by the way. Teehee.

Here's a question though, would you still be as bothered by it if I was to live in the US? I can understand your point of view if you were to move here. I would want to learn the language of the country I am in as well, ofcourse. But I think I'm too lazy to learn a language I don't really need, apart from a few phrases and stuff for the fun of it that is.

I've lived in many places where people speak English, but when dating, it has always helped that I meet my SO halfway. Especially in moments of weakness, pain or pleasure when they may forget foreign words.
 

jenocyde

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Also, how will I ever quiz your grandparents on what you were like as a child? I ask too many damn questions. I usually make it a point to learn the language of whoever I am dating or wherever I am going.
 

Fluffywolf

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Still, geographical distances aside, you are interested!

That's mainly what my interest in this topic is about. Just need to find copies of you around here. ;)

Grandparents are dead. Parents don't know me well. My sister is the only family member I really have ties with beyond professional ties. Anyhow, I'm shouldn't try to justify myself here. I'm much more interested to know more how people see me on a personality level. :)
 

jenocyde

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Still, geographical distances aside, you are interested!

woah woah woah, I didn't commit to that answer. I said I would date you, I never said anything about my interest... :smile:
 
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Dali

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I would; it would make an interesting change from the usual Dom-Fes I've been with.
 
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Dali

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I still don't think you get me. I would have to learn your language. It wouldn't even be an option. I need to speak to you in your own language when I need to hammer a point home in a debate. I would need to be able to communicate with your friends, if I had to. Also, it would bother me to no end that there is something you know and I don't. Welcome to the World of Crazy. Still want that T chick?

I don't need to know everything that you know, but it would kill me that you spoke for hours laughing with your parents, and I would not understand a single word. I would feel so distant from you. If we ever had kids, I wouldn't know what you would be saying to them. You get what I'm saying?

I've lived in many places where people speak English, but when dating, it has always helped that I meet my SO halfway. Especially in moments of weakness, pain or pleasure when they may forget foreign words.

I totally get what you mean. With each of my foreign GFs, I had to try and learn their native languages even though they all spoke English well. I just had to (for the reasons you've enumerated above).
 

Fluffywolf

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I would; it would make an interesting change from the usual Dom-Fes I've been with.

If gender and geographical differences were no issue, what would you as an ISFP expect from such a relationship? :)
 

Gewitter27

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I would date you, if you were a girl.
As it stands, I would prefer just to hang out with you.
 
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Dali

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If gender and geographical differences were no issue, what would you as an ISFP expect from such a relationship? :)

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:D
 

Fluffywolf

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Raises interesting P/J thoughts. The leeway of a P might work quite nice with me, whilest a J might have more trouble with putting things (me) in order. :D
 
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Dali

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Sometimes, things (you) need to be put in order.

I've found having a J partner works much better for me in that we complement each others' personalities rather than reinforcing each others' weak areas as happened with my last two P/P relationships. :doh:
 

Fluffywolf

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Well, considering I need to put up being J at work. A p/p relationship seems much more appealing to me. I wouldn't want to be confronted with a J partner as well next to work too much. But I can see how in some situations p/p is no good. :devil:
 

Amargith

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I don't know you well enough to decide just yet. But you have potential, and I do feel we get along just fine and have a ton of fun. I have no problem being toyed with, in fact, I expect a man to be able to outmatch me now and again, on every area. Otherwise I feel like I just bulldozer right over them..no fun :D

You're clearly intelligent, and you're not intimidated easily and have a strong enough will to be able to call me on stuff you don't like. You would need to get a haircut though :alttongue:
 

Fluffywolf

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You're clearly intelligent, and you're not intimidated easily and have a strong enough will to be able to call me on stuff you don't like. You would need to get a haircut though :alttongue:

Already had one. :D My sister (hairdresser) is just always busy (ESFJ) and once I want my hair cut, it takes her about two months to get around doing my hair. :p

It's trimmed quite a bit again.
 

Mondo

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No. Sorry, I don't swing that way but I think we would make great friends, :D
 
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