Edgar
Nerd King Usurper
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Overall she wasn't interested and gave me the "i have boyfriend" excuse.
[YOUTUBE="4faSs0mg_pI"]She has a boyfriend[/YOUTUBE]
Overall she wasn't interested and gave me the "i have boyfriend" excuse.
You are joking, right?
How can you NOT be seducing if you're an INTP??!!!![]()
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Who, Edgar? Perish the thought!
We're a lot slower than most to build social confidence. A LOT slower. I think I'm probably not alone in that understanding MBTI has made it easier to accept the way I am and then get to work on/with it.
But isn't that what makes you guys hot!?
I donno, is it?
I wasn't going to hit on any girls till I read those books and "master" the whole thing but i saw really cute girl at the market and had to say something and all i could think of was that stupid ass pick up line. It kinda worked but i didn't plan what i was going to say next. Overall she wasn't interested and gave me the "i have boyfriend" excuse. bullshi# i'm pretty sure she didn't had one just wanted me to leave her alone
Also Google: Boyfriend Destroying Patterns
A partnership of equals doesn't always equal two people filling the same roles. Desiring security is not mutually exclusive with wanting to be loved.Wait, you don't want to be loved? Just provided for?
I see relationships (perhaps naively) as a partnership of equals. But you are right, it's probably more like a trade, and at least you are being honest about what you bring to the deal.
The incongruity, for me, is in the fact that most INTP women seem to be self-sufficient, almost to a fault. But I could see how you could rationalize an alternative lifestyle. I suppose if you know that you can always take care of yourself, if need be, then you are sacrificing nothing.
But and this is a big but...
before you get any of this stuff get this and apply it as soon and as often as you can.The Mystery Method: Amazon.co.uk: Erik von Markovik: Books. It will apply better to your engineering sensiblitites and works much quicker in the applicable venues (and not to different to mastering those video games you played as a teen). It will give you confidence and pretty quick results (it was very quick for me but then again I had a pretty extensive NLP background). After you discover how it works for pretty good also consider if you can recruit a wingman or if you live in a big city consider joining "a den".
I know it sounds a bit extreme yet this is a 21st century take on how to dominate a historically long perplexing conundrum (and likely a 21st century defense will eventually appear)
We're a lot slower than most to build social confidence. A LOT slower. I think I'm probably not alone in that understanding MBTI has made it easier to accept the way I am and then get to work on/with it.
Spamtar: Would you trust a woman who could be gamed away from a BF to be your life partner?
OK this is about picking up women - but what about actually forming a sustainable relationship or is fucking as many women as possible the only aim here?
Or is the idea that once you've done the pick-up you hope that you get on?
Just to further prove your point, I think Wild horses was hitting on you...![]()
Edger's video clip is a great extreme example on why not continuing to game girls with boyfriends is ludicrous. (program this in your head)
In fact girls with boyfriends are better then girls without boyfriends. If they aint got a ring it don't mean a thing.(at least have this in your mindset). Her telling you she has a BF can mean many things. Only "one" is that she is not interested in dating/talking to you. And if she is not interested sexually and you don't have anything better to do, make friends anyway; she probably has some hot girl friends, might even be a good friend/pivot.
Also you can have sexual interest but (as another poster already mentioned) never project it so early. Just be friendly. Even if she is looking at you like she wants to do you right there in aisle 3. You will soon discover this is the easy part after you get approach/opener basics down.
Don't kick yourself, rejection is good thing to get used to in the beginning.
Lose fear of rejection and you will appear to have what is called "confidence"
Also Google: Boyfriend Destroying Patterns
You took my comments entirely out of context. I have nothing against stay-at-home moms.A partnership of equals doesn't always equal two people filling the same roles. Desiring security is not mutually exclusive with wanting to be loved.
and you do?he doesn't know how to treat people with respect
looks like your bigger issues. Newsflash: 99% of guys wants to have sex with beautiful woman and there's nothing wrong with that. Usually girls know if I'm using those pick up line to get in bed with her, if she interested than there's no harm. I seen how some guys treat woman and I'm no where close being an "asshole". Just because you disagree on something or have different opinion doesn't make me a less of a person.Dude got issues
he doesn't know how to treat people with respect