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    Habitual Fi LineStepper JocktheMotie's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    This is simply not true.
    Hmm, so all of your male friends still have a chance? The book is not closed? I'm curious about that, just going by my experience and some of my friend's experience, but once a relationship has settled into its niche I think it can be hard to break out of it and have that change.

    Unless you're kidding again I've been awful lately.



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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    Hmm, so all of your male friends still have a chance? The book is not closed? I'm curious about that, just going by my experience and some of my friend's experience, but once a relationship has settled into its niche I think it can be hard to break out of it and have that change.

    Unless you're kidding again I've been awful lately.
    No, I'm not kidding. For once!

    I think if a guy is not going to be a romantic prospect, it has nothing to do with timing or the way the relationship progresses. It's just a lack of chemistry. But even if the chemistry doesn't seem to be there, sometimes it can grow between friends. I've seen this happen more than once and it has happened to me too. I believe, ideally, a lover should also be your best friend.
    Trust and safety CAN be sexy!
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    No, I'm not kidding. For once!

    I think if a guy is not going to be a romantic prospect, it has nothing to do with timing or the way the relationship progresses. It's just a lack of chemistry. But even if the chemistry doesn't seem to be there, sometimes it can grow between friends. I've seen this happen more than once and it has happened to me too. I believe, ideally, a lover should also be your best friend.
    Trust and safety CAN be sexy!
    I agree it can happen, but it's rare. Ladder theory says so too.
    I have come to believe that the whole world is an enigma, a harmless enigma that is made terrible by our own mad attempt to interpret it as though it had an underlying truth.
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    Oh well then it must be true if ladder theory says so. :rolli:
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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    This is simply not true.
    so true.
    if a man I am interested in can also fall into the " safety" and "trustful" category, and like mentioned, it can be sexy as hell..

    where as

    Men that fall in the " friends zone" are not only associated with " trust " and "safety", to me, they're also going to be associated with " asexuality". They lose their "man" charm, and might as well be females.

    cruel to say, but its true.

    although there are exceptions, where the girl will have a guy fall into the friend zone for other reason, and still see him as a viable sexual candidate.
    Last edited by figsfiggyfigs; 03-26-2010 at 03:15 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    No, I'm not kidding. For once!

    I think if a guy is not going to be a romantic prospect, it has nothing to do with timing or the way the relationship progresses. It's just a lack of chemistry. But even if the chemistry doesn't seem to be there, sometimes it can grow between friends. I've seen this happen more than once and it has happened to me too. I believe, ideally, a lover should also be your best friend.
    Trust and safety CAN be sexy!
    It makes evolutionary sense for women to find trust and safety attractive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Salt n' pepper View Post
    It makes evolutionary sense for women to find trust and safety attractive.
    Let's put that to the test.

    Hey you... Don't worry, you can trust me never to be a part your life, so you'll be safe from me for all eternity. *wink*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    Let's put that to the test.

    Hey you... Don't worry, you can trust me never to be a part your life, so you'll be safe from me for all eternity. *wink*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Salt n' pepper View Post
    It makes evolutionary sense for women to find trust and safety attractive.
    Makes common sense too. I'd never sleep with anyone I didn't trust/feel safe with.
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    I trust my husband more than I trust anyone else on the face of the earth. I love the way I feel safe when I'm with him. If I didn't, he wouldn't be able to get me naked like he does.

    Not all women are self-destructive, so guys, you have to look a little deeper instead of just blaming women for having bad taste if they don't like you.
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