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    So, I seduced one unintentionally. Apparently, if you ignore them they like that?
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    We seduce ourselves for you. You're welcome!



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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    We seduce ourselves for you. You're welcome!
    Could you enlighten to me as to how this process works?
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    You probably had a pleasant interaction and he liked you. He went home, and thought about it. He meta-analyzed everything you said and tried to determine if there was something more or maybe he's just projecting, but maybe there really could be attraction there and wow it would be pretty interesting. The INTPs finds you to be such an intriguing puzzle he thinks about you all the time, trying to figure you out. This process is so much fun for him, and just the thought of you perks him up and sets his mind racing again. Bam! Seduced. And you didn't even have to do anything!



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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    You probably had a pleasant interaction and he liked you. He went home, and thought about it. He meta-analyzed everything you said and tried to determine if there was something more or maybe he's just projecting, but maybe there really could be attraction there and wow it would be pretty interesting. The INTPs finds you to be such an intriguing puzzle he thinks about you all the time, trying to figure you out. This process is so much fun for him, and just the thought of you perks him up and sets his mind racing again. Bam! Seduced. And you didn't even have to do anything!
    Thanks for the explanation, but I was being sarcastic... *double face palm for poorly communicated sarcasm*
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    My post was mostly in jest as well, but that is how it tends to happen...



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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    My post was mostly in jest as well, but that is how it tends to happen...
    Yeah, the intp and I have already had this happen. The adjustment to each others humor is rather amusing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oddly Refined View Post
    Yeah, the intp and I have already had this happen. The adjustment to each others humor is rather amusing.
    Yeah it can take a while. I find INTJs who have perfected the deadpan delivery are tough to figure out, and you'll most likely confuse the hell out of each other on numerous occasions, but like you said, that's part of the fun.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Matthew_Z View Post
    Things are so much easier when people find our occasional "head in the clouds" look cute and then attempt to seduce us, not the other way around.

    However, I'd like to question that, if any INTP knew the answer to this question, would they more likely being applying said answer or talking about it on a forum?

    I have extrovert qualities, so it makes me a little more comfortable talking to people. I've "seduced" people, in a loose sense.

    1. Be attractive - not just your base physical appearance, but dress well and shower, etc. There is also body language in being attractive. An open stance, tilted head, arms loose, etc. Also a key ingredient is not giving a damn and showing it. That part takes practice.

    2. Approach. My basic strategy involves being funny and witty, especially to start. If you are seducing someone smart, you can nerd out. If not, you can pick up one of the things you have in common (sports, movies, whatever banal topic you like) but just keep it light and moving, and don't monopolize someone in a corner. I find it helps to move around. At a party, go get a drink or dance, or go find your roommate's weed stash. Whatever. Make it more adventurous than a drunken conversation in a hallway.

    Really that's it. Alcohol is a big crutch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JocktheMotie View Post
    Very hard to do. Once you're friend zoned it's hard to ignite the sexy-connections in the woman's brain. They associate you with safety and trust, the most unsexy characteristics imaginable!
    This is simply not true.
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