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    Nips away your dignity Fluffywolf's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    How do you deem a subject to be worthy?
    When poetry flows not from the mind, but from the heart.
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    Alcohol.
    That is only halfway. You gotta spike the beverage too.
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    I'm interested in what you percieve me to be. Johari/Nohari

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    I lost interest when he was punked by Burt Reynolds on that Leno show.
    I only just read of that, in search of solidifying a vague notion of something odd I heard about the guy not too long ago. Offhand, now, not sure what it was.

    Perhaps I should ask Neil Gaiman. Surely he must have written him a biography by now.

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    Alternatively, Gamma-hydroxybutyrate is another way.

    Of course, I don't mean to be illegal, but Gamma-hydroxybutyrate is probably the most successful way an INTP could possibly seduce .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aderack View Post
    Perhaps I should ask Neil Gaiman. Surely he must have written him a biography by now.
    I think Coraline was based on Marc.

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    I make fun of them and hope they like it.

    Or do cheesy, hopelessly romantic things with an uncomfortable smile and see what happens.

    Actually I'd rather just rely on the other person.



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    Figure out the concepts of social interaction. Instead of what I used to do, just force interaction, I now go look for things of interest to engage people. If I notice a girl wearing a unique shirt I'll tell her that I like it and ask where she got it. If she mentions the store, and it happens to be an interesting place (a girl once told me she got her shirt in Spain, which obviously immidiatly leads to vacations as a common interest and a conversation topic) I go on about that. If I don't know it I'll ask her about it etc..

    So much difference from the good old: "Hi, I'm ***. Want a drink?"

    Also, my self esteem is much higher then it used to be. If I meet someone they'll have to proof themselves as much to me as I do to them. I'm not all flattery any more, but will tell you honestly you look silly with your oversized sunglasses on, or make a joke about it if you say something silly.

    Quote Originally Posted by Matthew_Z View Post
    Things are so much easier when people find our occasional "head in the clouds" look cute and then attempt to seduce us, not the other way around.

    However, I'd like to question that, if any INTP knew the answer to this question, would they more likely being applying said answer or talking about it on a forum?
    You can't do either 100% of the time...

    Quote Originally Posted by Mo View Post
    You guys give yourself too little credit.

    I suppose you could play off the Ne; make little witty observations around (BUT NOT NECESSARILY 'ABOUT'. SOME OF YOU DO NOT HAVE AN OFF-BUTTON ONCE YOU GET STARTED RIBBING ON SOMEONE) your love interest.



    Haha!
    True, raise your hand if you've ever scared of a person this way:

    Quote Originally Posted by infpwonderer View Post
    Yep it is. Also there seems to be a "moment" of realisation with INTPs that they are fancied which is ultra sweet , you can kinda see the penny dropping (hehehe) after lots and lots of flirting At least with the two that I've been out with this was the case.
    Yeah, with me it's almost like a conclusion I reach at some point, and if anything up until reaching that conclusion doesn't go to my liking I lose interest faster then Paul McCartney loses his money in a divorce.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shimmy View Post
    True, raise your hand if you've ever scared of a person this way:
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shimmy View Post
    Figure out the concepts of social interaction. Instead of what I used to do, just force interaction, I now go look for things of interest to engage people. If I notice a girl wearing a unique shirt I'll tell her that I like it and ask where she got it. If she mentions the store, and it happens to be an interesting place (a girl once told me she got her shirt in Spain, which obviously immidiatly leads to vacations as a common interest and a conversation topic) I go on about that. If I don't know it I'll ask her about it etc...
    Excellent use of Fe to draw a person in! Hone in on what a person tells you, keep finding points of commonality, show that you're interested, and eventually you'll have a phone number. Do not overanalyze the conversation or how self-conscious you are in executing it. People will give you plenty of information to go off of if you're just listening to what they're saying and not concentrating on your next move.

    I think this is an IxTPs best bet for suckering seduction. It doesn't need to be grand, very simple.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    My rules for conversation:
    1. Don't take small talk literally.
    2. Don't delve into quantum mechanics until AT LEAST 30 minutes after the conversation has begun.
    3. Spend as much time talking as listening. (and vice versa)
    4. Don't make jokes about the death of cute forest creatures.
    5. Don't initiate a conversation about morality. However, you may participate in the aforementioned discussion if the other person initiated it.
    6. Don't say things just to test people's reactions; most don't like that.
    7. It's a conversation, not an argument; don't get so devoted to winning.
    8. Don't point out flaws in the other person's speech.
    9. Tread carefully when talking about the other person's appearance or physique.
    10. In casual conversation, it's usually best to turn off "critic mode."
    11. The other person has eyes; make eye contact. However, do not stare them down.
    (These rules may not apply if the other person broke them first.)

    That being said, I break most of them on a regular basis.

    Also, I shall raise my hand.
    If a deaf INFP falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?

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