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[INTJ] How to seduce an INTJ...

Misty_Mountain_Rose

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You know... I'm STILL wishing someone would seduce me. How long ago was it that this thread was first going? I guess I really should have invested in the T-shirt...
 

runvardh

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You know... I'm STILL wishing someone would seduce me. How long ago was it that this thread was first going? I guess I really should have invested in the T-shirt...

It would kind of be nice if you did that and it ended up catching on. Probably would make my life easier.
 

SillySapienne

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Sheldon Cooper - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

:wub:

Been wanting to watch this show for a while, (The Big Bang Theory), anyway, I just saw an episode for the first time this evening, and I'm in lurrrve with Sheldon, I think he's a prototypical INTJ.

And, the reason why I am posting this here is, he seems/is asexual.

You're an asexual lot, this juxtaposed with ENFP's hypersexuality, (for Ns, at least ;)), seems interesting/odd.

:)
 

SillySapienne

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Hater. :rolleyes:

INTJ Relationships

Sexually, the INTJ enjoys thinking about intimacy, and about ways to perfect it. In positive relationships, their creativity and intensity shine through in this arena. In more negative relationships, they might enjoy thinking about sex more than actually doing it. They're likely to approach intimacy from a theoretical, creative perspective, rather than as an opportunity to express love and affection.
 

SillySapienne

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To clarify...

I think you guys give off an asexual vibe, that doesn't mean that you are actually asexual.

You guys just seem, generally speaking, sexually and sensually distant.

Am I wrong?

:)
 

SillySapienne

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Yeah, Sheldon is like an uber-eccentric, genius-superhero, guys like him don't truly exist.

*sad face*
 

Kra

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To clarify...

I think you guys give off an asexual vibe, that doesn't mean that you are actually asexual.

You guys just seem, generally speaking, sexually and sensually distant.

Am I wrong?

:)

I like to think I just have a large amount of self-control. :D
 

poppy

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You guys just seem, generally speaking, sexually and sensually distant.

Until we jump you!

But yeah, I was jokingly accused the other day of being a killer robot, which surprised me since I think I'm a much warmer and more expressive person than I used to be.

So chances are we have no idea just how chilly/asexual we come off. In which case ENFP's and their hypersexuality are doing us a favor by attempting to sex us up whether or not we express our desire for it in the traditional ways.

(And Sheldon is pretty adorable, for an OCD possibly autism spectrum INTJ :D Even I kind of want to give him a hug.)
 
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To clarify...

I think you guys give off an asexual vibe, that doesn't mean that you are actually asexual.

You guys just seem, generally speaking, sexually and sensually distant.

Am I wrong?

:)

You're not wrong about how we appear. But we're like one of those awesome "secret" bars that has a nondescript door with no sign outside. You have to work a little to find it, but it's worth it.
 

Metamorphosis

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You're not wrong about how we appear. But we're like one of those awesome "secret" bars that has a nondescript door with no sign outside. You have to work a little to find it, but it's worth it.

Yeah, I think the problem isn't so much that we appear asexual. It's that we appear a-everything.
 

InfiniteIntrigue

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Don't be a moron.
Don't be shallow.
Do be sarcastic,
but not to the point of being annoying.

Be worth thinking about (By that I mean be intriguing).
 

Synarch

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Just show them how much smarter you are than they are and don't be cowed by their wall of stony impassivity.
 

Edgar

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Just show them how much smarter you are than they are and don't be cowed by their wall of stony impassivity. Show them your tits

fixed
 

Cranky

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Be yourself. Either we'll want you or we won't. You really don't have a lot to do with the process.

If you don't possess characteristics we want (desired number of children =/= mine, religious orientation too dissimilar, desired living location, etc), you don't have a chance. Don't bother to try. (One assumes you ARE talking about a relationship, and not physical contact?)

If you do, you will see us start to dissect you. At a certain point, we will decide we want you or don't.

Once we HAVE decided we want you, we are then vulnerable. There's no need to seduce at that point; you've already got us and don't need to do anything else. Proceed to relate (i.e. the present participle of 'to have a relationship').
 

runvardh

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Be yourself. Either we'll want you or we won't. You really don't have a lot to do with the process.

If you don't possess characteristics we want (desired number of children =/= mine, religious orientation too dissimilar, desired living location, etc), you don't have a chance. Don't bother to try. (One assumes you ARE talking about a relationship, and not physical contact?)

If you do, you will see us start to dissect you. At a certain point, we will decide we want you or don't.

Once we HAVE decided we want you, we are then vulnerable. There's no need to seduce at that point; you've already got us and don't need to do anything else. Proceed to relate (i.e. the present participle of 'to have a relationship').

See, that's the nice part about you guys: one doesn't have to play poker to know whether they win the pot or not, it's just a simple coin toss. I wonder then how to make it easy enough for an INTJ to see those, starting from showing up on the radar to begin with.
 

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See, that's the nice part about you guys: one doesn't have to play poker to know whether they win the pot or not, it's just a simple coin toss. I wonder then how to make it easy enough for an INTJ to see those, starting from showing up on the radar to begin with.

It will be either a conversation or your physical appearance.

Talk to lots of girls. If one is an INTJ and she likes you (and is healthy and ready for a relationship, which only she can decide...and WILL have decided), she'll do the work.
 
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