If all else fails, knock them out cold, drag the body back to yours and chain them up until they fall in love with you.
Yes i am joking.
“I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
― Georgia O'Keeffe
So I guess it would be nice to know how to stack the odds in one's favour with out being fake...
Do things that this thread says you should. The way I see it is that INTJ probably will not fall for you in a classical way. Instead you have to make
yourself noticed during a certain period of time. So that INTJ notices your "potential". If he/she likes you he/she will try to get along a little bit better with you. Only then the classical games of seduction can begin.
I could be wrong but this is how I see it. (in general/most cases)
Alot of it depends on how expressed INTJ you are trying to date is.
Aren't there times when you need to let them alone?
Oh yes, you shouldn't jump on us and whisper about topics we love too much. Invite the INTJ to do interesting things with you (no big groups, but we like one on one for the most part). Keep conversation intellectual (or at least not emotional) for a couple years (just kidding, but seriously we can require a lot of time). Then I guess, confess your interest in as detached a way as you can. That's the normal route, unless your INTJ falls madly in love with you, but I don't know what that looks like (Big Fi-eyes? Occasionally telling you anything personal? Calling you just to talk?).
But if you want to seduce us in the classical sense your best bet is probably a combo of the alcohol/debate/throw over shoulder mentioned before.
"There's no need to be embarrassed about it, Mr. Spock. It happens to the birds and the bees!"