Imagine this hypothetical: Let's say I have a crush on an INTJ and I'm pretty sure he's interested too. I'm worried that he's going to talk/think himself out of doing anything about it. I'm smart and articulate, so I have my own arguments, reasons, and fears for why the relationship should or should not be attempted.
Are my arguments, reasons, and fears something to share w/ the INTJ or something to keep to myself until later? I worried: (1) that he'll be scared because - yes - I've though about us having a relationship; and (2) that he'll adopt my worries and concerns and add them to his own. Is this something the INTJ might do?