If i am interested in an INTJ (which i am not going to know at first), i am going to come over, introduce myself, you'll ask me if i would like a drink and we'll chat. If it goes well, we'll meet again, if it doesn't, then we'll go our seperate ways. If i know your an INTJ, i am not going to make myself look a tw*t by being technical about stuff i dont know. I am going to talk to you like a human being and ask questions and i'd hope you'd do the same.
This whole seduction thing is not rocket science.