As it is Iím already hesitant and suspicious around men (and some women) who I think may see my actions as flirtatious and suggestive of something deeper. Iíve been in too many situations where friends have tried to cross the line of friendship in the past, most of my friends are female for this reason. I treat everyone the same unless they cross that line, then I back off and try not to send mixed signals cause it really does make me pretty damn sad to lose a friend because they care too much and I canít offer what they want.
If itís a relationship you can be sure my feelings in the moment are authentic but I can't promise you theyíll last. If itís a friendship, again my feelings are legit but my aim is not to flirt or suggest thereís more on offer.
But I do want a connection, that's always my aim.Realize this. Fi acts like a mirror. If someone has Fi, they physiologically mimic what they percieve you to be feeling, what you project. They have NO CHOICE, unless they block defensively, knowingly, planning ahead to do this. If you project intense short term emo vibes, vibes that imply connectivity, that we are close, that you love us, that is what Fi will make us feel in return. We will love you back.
That was uncalled for!Unicorns are not real.