im not sure what else... just (trying) to be supportive, reliable, helpful, loyal ... ? i push my own boundaries for some people.. sometimes... when their messages actually get through (thanks to mbti, this situation is on the rise)
this quesiton is kind of hard to answer i think im actually kind of bad at it. maybe because intps dont use Fi, we dont even know when we care about someone
If we care or are interested in a small way. We will stay, but might seem a little distant, but we'll listen.
If we care a lot as a friend, we will help, advice, initiate, listen and show remarkable amounts of patience.
If we are infatuated, we may be clumsy and confused. But at least show signs of trying to make something of it. The more experienced we get in dealing with this, the less clumsy we become. But I find that it never really seems to go away. At least it hasn't yet for me.