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    Sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    There are levels of caring ofcourse.

    If we don't care, we won't stay.

    If we care or are interested in a small way. We will stay, but might seem a little distant, but we'll listen.

    If we care a lot as a friend, we will help, advice, initiate, listen and show remarkable amounts of patience.

    If we are infatuated, we may be clumsy and confused. But at least show signs of trying to make something of it. The more experienced we get in dealing with this, the less clumsy we become. But I find that it never really seems to go away. At least it hasn't yet for me.

    Lol, that's so true. I had a date last night with a girl who completely took over my brain in the last couple of days. I felt so clumsy. Luckily she was patient and understanding. I had a great time.

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    When I start taking personal grooming pretty seriously. If I always have a clean shave and I'm making sure my nails never get too long, I'm probably in love with you.
    I'm guilty of that as well.

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    Random acts of physical affection like a pat on the head, or a quick hug, followed by fleeing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Edge View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Costrin
    Initiating things
    although it may be hard to actually do it, the want to initiate is there.
    We might think about wanting to initiate stuff. Allegedly.

    Hernias brought on by too much enthusiasm are a problem.
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Basically, we pay attention to you.

    Mind, not doing so doesn't suggest a lack thereof. A person can only pay full attention to one thing at a time.

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    My dad is an INTP, and he demonstrates how he cares by giving spontaneous gifts. When my mum (ESTJ) was upset this one time, he surprised her with a new top to try and cheer her up. When I started getting angsty about not being able to find a job, he went behind my back and got me an interview at a restaurant.

    I show that I care in a similar way. When I noticed my mum was stressed out, I went to the shops and bought "relaxing" bath salts for her. She seemed appreciative, and used them.

    Neither of us are very good at verbalising our concern or care for others; we just act (or not, sometimes).
    Um, yeah.

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    Come to think of it, yes.

    My friend had been distressed for a while, so for her birthday a couple of months ago, I wrote her a song.

    My former companion -- I would often bake things for her. At least until it became clear that doing so annoyed her, and she probably wouldn't eat them anyway.

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    Funny, I once made a birthday video for someone. Like a mini story. Pretty cute one tbh. Uploaded it to stage6 which got taken down, so can't share.
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

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    Interesting...I've had INTP-friends buying me tokens and stuff too..so yeah
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    Like Grunge mentioned, I do the surprise bit - I love planning things and coming up with creative ideas to cheer someone. Like getting tickets to a favourite comedian or band when they come into town, or taking them to experience an activity they've always wanted to try. Thinking of something they would want that they'd never think of themselves, or wouldn't have the chance/thought to do on their own.

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