I've worked for an ENTJ female boss and an INTP male boss, and on both counts we got on surprisingly well. The female drove me NUTS, but had my sympathies and she was later terminated, but she LOVED me.
ENTJ / ESTJ females are often drawn to INFJ females, I know from experience. They think you maybe can help them.
"How dreadful!" cried Lord Henry. "I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect." ~ Oscar Wilde - The picture of Dorian Gray