As for the whole feeling the feeling, have you witnessed the unbridled feeling of an NT esp an NTP? It's not always a good thing to draw it out. Doing that almost finished my relationship as I had an ENFP keep asking me how I felt about my now wife and kept disregarding everything I said as thinking. That's the thing, I express through thought. If I care then I'm thinking about you and not sitting there experiencing emotions all the time. The emotion follows the thought not the other way around.