my mother is an ENTJ paired with an INTJ.
she definately runs the house, but somehow very quietly and behind the scenes. my dad is also very low key.
I don't know how they are so quiet and yet so intense together. Scares the shit out of an SFP
- From your fun-loving ESFP.
Se/Fi/Te/Ni, 44% E / 88% S / 62% F / 67% P
A female ENTJ I know tends to be attracted to other EXTJs. The whole getting stuff done and appreciating similar tendencies thing. What she likes in herself, she admires in other people. She also sometimes says she'd be better off alone. Which I think is Fi flaring up.
To me it looks like ExTJs together would get halfway to where they'd really want to be. They'd end up rich, possessed of much material success, and quite possibly completely satisfied as far as they knew. And still searching anyway. But they'd have their work.
I don't think I would enjoy a relationship with another ENTJ. I thrive off of a challenge, especially in romantic situations, so having someone who did agree with everything I said (much like my female ENTJ friend), I would find myself quickly becoming bored - or worse, starting a conflict just to feel some sort of passion. Eh, maybe that isn't derived from my personality but more of a deep character flaw. Baahaha.
I tend to go towards the nerdy introverts with me wearing the pants in almost every instance.