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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    Maintain? It's biological. Anyone who is confused about E or I must be a very confused person.
    Costrin is INTP right? That's the INTP bewilderment I was talking about

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    How to improve your charm:

    Lie, bluff, exxagerate. make people believe what you say.
    A good lier is always a good charmer.

    Always practice public speaking, speak in front of large audiences without using any notes and reminders. Make random bullshit up as you go.

    Be blunt, challenge stupid people's opinions.

    Have courage, say things that people not dare to speak. Speak with force and aggression, and pound on the truth if you know you are right.

    practice good body poisture, walk and stand upright.

    Look up words in the dictionary that reflects on your personality. practice using these words everyday in your talk and stuff.

    Write down your thoughts everyday, then find an opportunity to speak them out to people iimmediately the next day.

    Be nice to people you hate. If you can't do it, at least fake it.
    The fear of poverty turns people into slaves of money.

    "In this Caesar there are many Mariuses"~Sulla

    Conquer your inner demons first before you conquer the world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Costrin View Post
    How To Be Charming - A Guide For INTPs
    3. Utilise the "yes and" principle. Accept the information a person gives you, and add more. This keeps conversations going. Conversely, not adding more is an easy way to end conversations.
    I lolled and lettuce came out of my mouth. It was quite charming.
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    Actually, Charisma can't really be taught. You either born with it or you don't have it.
    Its like this force of character inside you.

    But I know salesmanship and lying to strangers definitely can improve your charisma.
    Becuase it really takes courage to lie to someone you don't know.
    The fear of poverty turns people into slaves of money.

    "In this Caesar there are many Mariuses"~Sulla

    Conquer your inner demons first before you conquer the world.

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    Quote Originally Posted by juggernaut View Post
    INTP charm.

    Isn't that an oxymoron?

    An ENTJ questioning an INTP's appeal is like Bill Gates questioning Einstein's charisma.

    That's irony plus oxymoron right there.

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    And, advice to the person who created the thread.
    The 1st post should have come with a punchline. It would have an achieved the needed effect.

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    Anyway, if you're an INTP that's close to Bluewing in reality, or you ever communicate like that in real life, you're kinda screwed.

    Jennifer mode, however, gives you better chances.
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    An INTP's basic training ground for charisma (jacked up Ne), are female NFs. Testing charisma on male NTs is gay.

    Best leverage for establishing ties are affinity to mediums that have an overlapping to both NFs and NTs (Neil Gaiman stuff, Star Wars, LOTR, etc.)

    Establish ties through that, then go to flirt mode (Ne style). Then gather up NFs and flirt with as many of them as you can, and be confident enough that with this leverage, you have enough communication skills to hold your own with a bunch of extroverted sensor feelers.

    If you're able to last interacting with them SFs in a day without making yourself look out of place, you're doing good.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cypocalypse View Post
    Anyway, if you're an INTP that's close to Bluewing in reality, or you ever communicate like that in real life, you're kinda screwed.
    Since when are INTPs like ISTJs????

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    The problem with trying to be charmful as a INTP is you don't know if its working or not. Its awkward and definately out of character and people will see right thru you. Of course you could just not care. You fall flat enough times you'll eventually catch on. I think perfecting the art of small talk and being social will help before practicing being charmful.

    I know a guy at my work who try so hard to initiate a conversation (he's our superviasor and everyone hates him, not to mention he has almost zero social skill) with people and its just feel awkward whenever he jumps in peoples conversation and tries to be friendly. And when he jokes at you, you kind have that deer in the headlight look, cause you don't know wheather he's serious or not. I'm guessing he's a INTJ or ENTJ.

    And I agree that charisma can't be taught, its definately a inborn trait.

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    I'd be surprised if most of us have any interest in being charming. I've never tried to charm anyone in my life. But I've been told I am charming more than once. Of course I've also been told I'm a total bitch. Opinions are just that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    I'd be surprised if most of us have any interest in being charming. I've never tried to charm anyone in my life. But I've been told I am charming more than once. Of course I've also been told I'm a total bitch. Opinions are just that.
    Maybe you're just a charming bitch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    Maybe you're just a charming bitch!
    It's only charming when you're not the target

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