All three of my good friends are ENTJs and I just find it a little weird/interesting that I have so many of them in my life. I was wondering what ENTJs specifically find attractive or unattractive (in terms of personality) in ENFJs :> Thanks!
actually works pretty good. i have a friend who says she is an Enfj. even
though we're pretty different on the t/f perspective we balance each oth-
er out pretty good when we have to work on group projects.
you have all the power you need if you dare to look
My bff Athena is an ENTJ too. Hmm. Interesting. I didn't realize that other ENFJs were such ENTJ friend magnets. *laughs* An ENTJ guy that was pursuing my sister, we fell in together and palled around a lot.
eNFJ 4w3 sx/so 468 tritype
EII-Fi subtype, Ethical/Empath, Delta/Beta
AIS Holland code
my best friend for 10 years was an ExFJ (we're 70%sure she's N) The dynamic we had worked because I would always defer to her for her natural charm, and she would defer to me for the brainpower and heavy conversations to make an impression when we went out together. As long as both parties are aware of their strengths and weaknesses, it's fine to just be yourself.
And, of course, the ENTJs are attracted to the charisma in the first place. We can't quite get that Fe warmth down, so a bit of jealousy and admiration do come into play.
We can't quite get that Fe warmth down, so a bit of jealousy and admiration do come into play.
ENFJs are great; magnetic is certainly the perfect adjective, however, it's quite odd that I don't see too many on here. ENFJ women are gems! Conversations flow smoothly and the ambiance of mingling is just celestial. Unfortunately, most of my friends and almost everybody I meet are all SFPs and NFPs, forcing me to have those taxing, deeply descriptive conversations whilst swallowing that "live here, now" type of hipster jargon in order to get my dose of social interaction.
My social life is so entangled in fighting the frictional personality divergences of the torrential amount of SFPs that come my way. No wonder I surround myself with Asians whenever possible; their intellectual demeanor fills the void in my social NT depravity gap.