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    Hello gang. I want to know more about the Entj. I feel like one is interested in me but he seems very distracted as of late. Can men have one track minds and forget about women in general and just focus on their career to an extreme?

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    Yes. Female ENTJs do it too.

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    So do I just wait for him to come around? For me I feel it shows a lack of interest.

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    INTJs do this too.

    As for interest... Just keep talking to him. I'd tell him that you need reassurance perhaps, reassurance that there is still interest.

    Other ENTJs will be a much greater help for this, but in my experience just continue talking. Make it seem like things were the way that they used to be before he got into this work loop. If he resists start probing him as to why, and get to the bottom of the problem.
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    Thanks for the advice. Where are all the Entj's anyway? Are they too busy even for this forum??

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    Yeah, there is nothing to really worry about. Keep talking to him so that you keep his attention and don't act like there is anything is wrong. If you were to say anything, I know that some ENTJs might see it as premature emotional dependency, which they could see as emotional instability (note all the somes, mights and maybes.) Just be normal and it will go back to normal. An awful game, I know.


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    Rationals are odd to me. I equate time with love. How do you know when an Entj is not interested then? I interpret disappearing as lack of interest.

    Thanks again for the help!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CindySue View Post
    I interpret disappearing as lack of interest.
    It's not. But I can't tell you what signifies a lack of interest. My speculation is that due to the ENTJ's up front nature, they would be up front about being disinterested or about things not working.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CindySue View Post
    Rationals are odd to me. I equate time with love. How do you know when an Entj is not interested then? I interpret disappearing as lack of interest.

    Thanks again for the help!

    I think it might be helpful to have a little more information. Why do you feel he's interested in you? Are you/were you dating, spending time together?

    Did he really disappear or is he just spending less time with you? How long has it been since he became unattentive?
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    due to the ENTJ's up front nature, they would be up front about being disinterested or about things not working.
    They would be equally up front about being interested in you. I would ask him, straight out, "do you wanna go out on a date with me?"

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