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    Fair enough, jenocide - you make a good point. God forbid someone be reckless or careless with an NFs heart/feelings/emotions... That was actually quite ... umm... er... tender? thoughtful? of you... Is that possible?

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    Fine. NTs have some connection to a commitment to capacity.
    everyone uses every function about evenly. take NE for example. if there are those who don't use it much, then why are there such massive amounts of people constantly flowing through Wallmart with 20 items or less?

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    I think you nailed it Jennifer - at SOME point the INTP will be compelled to reflect on the MEANING of the encounters... And consequently, could potentially flee! LOL! It's risky business these INTP encounters I tell ya!

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    Quote Originally Posted by seeker22 View Post
    LOL... spoken like only a true INTP. I see your point - it's actually quite comforting.

    For an ENFP like me though, usually, when you're truly INTO someone... you don't just meet up a couple times a week for sex and never talk or text or hang out in between! You don't limit contact and dole it out like a precious gem, one pellet at a time!
    It's hard for me to comment further, given I don't know the particulars of your relationship. You're making it sound as though you screw each other a couple times a week and that's it, that's all you ever see her for, that's all the interaction you ever have. Is this the case? Or are you being melodramatic and exaggerating?

    I don't want to jump to conclusions and be prejudicial, but, you know... being ENFP and all, you do tend to blow things out of proportion from my perspective.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    I'm going to say something and I really hope it lands the right way... I don't mean to offend, I just want to be honest (from my own perspective): I wouldn't bother having sex with an NF unless I really really really like that person. Generally, it's too much work for me to keep them emotionally fulfilled.
    In my opinion, you shouldn't have sexual relations with someone unless you really really like them anyway.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Lookin at that OP one more time and reading the posts...hate to say it...she's playin ya dude. Who knows, she could even be watchin all this. Is she with you right now?
    everyone uses every function about evenly. take NE for example. if there are those who don't use it much, then why are there such massive amounts of people constantly flowing through Wallmart with 20 items or less?

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    Ha ha ha!! Not being dramatic - this time anyway. Yes, we meet up a couple times a week, have amazing conversation and sex, and no one knows - we keep it a secret. Strange... But to actually admit what is going on to anyone would make it too "real." We never seem to make it out of the house... She has made it clear how into the sex and our connection she is, and that she has feelings for me... But they feel too intense for her and she is unsure how to handle them which freaks her out... She said she has never felt this "intense" with someone before...

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    Quote Originally Posted by seeker22 View Post
    I'm involved with an INTP who seems to be able to keep sex purely recreational - or at least, detached. I can't read her. When together, she is completely present and into the moment. When apart, she falls off the face of the earth. Question: is it easier for NTs to detach from the emotions involved in sex? As I said in a post elsewhere, for an ENFP sex + no contact for next few days = gasp!! Although, she does always return - on her terms...
    Why aren't you talking with her about it? Write her an email if it's too hard to say. Be honest.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    I'm not sure how to answer the question.

    I'm capable of viewing sex as an experience in itself.
    But I am simultaneously capable of viewing it as a huge huge huge connection with someone else.

    I'm not sure how this leaves me feeling.

    I think I could enjoy it during even if it's just recreational (although it means more if it's with someone I'm connected to), but afterwards I can't help but reflect on it and what it all "meant" even if at the time it wasn't reflective of much at all.
    Same here, we do not take sex lightly.

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    Not talking about it with her because she is very uncomfortable with "feeling" talk.

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