Also, boys who are in fact kindred spirits tend to be intimidated when I look cute. I've met someone while looking grungy, had an awesome conversation, and then seen him the next day when I was normal and he was too stuttery to talk anymore. It sucked.
So not looking the part, while fun for shock value, has its downfalls.
Also, my fave ENTP song:
YouTube - Don McLean - Everybody loves me (music&lyrics) (ignore the insipidity of the user-made vid)