"How dreadful!" cried Lord Henry. "I can stand brute force, but brute reason is quite unbearable. There is something unfair about its use. It is hitting below the intellect." ~ Oscar Wilde - The picture of Dorian Gray
As far as I can tell, people only dislike me when I act like a jerk -- which means when I get unnecessarily snarky, insensitive, abrasive, a know-it-all, or dismissive. (I'm sure someone can add to the list for me. )
And that's not a bad selection, if you've got to not hate SOME part of the world...! (It's far better than not hating downtown Newark, remote regions of Siberia, and Louisiana swampland.)
Never even heard of downtown Newark. What is there?
I have been to downtown Haifa.
Tattoed seamen, fresh Mediterranean breeze, Falafeli and Goldstar.
Never enter remote Siberia. You might catch the fatal Siberian cold.
I have never been to Caribbean, or Solomon.
I have postcars pinned on the wall.
I watch them while I eat my Sushi.
That sucks. I notice the same thing about ENTJS, people act indifferent
towards you like you might as well not even be in the room when you want
someone to hang out with then when you're doing your own thing and just
enjoying yourself, bam...or people ignore you for their cliques they let get
up their butts and get posessive of them and backstab you to keep up with
them, then the minute those people are too busy or ditch them they come
crawling back and became a cling on and don't bother to think for a minute
that they did the exact same thing. I have few people I actually consider
close friends and I honestly could care less...fool me once, shame on you.
fool me twice, shame on me.