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    Default How did you meet your INTJ?

    I thought this might be a interesting thread idea.
    Anywho.
    For those of you who are in a relationship, or those who have been in a relationship with an INTJ I'm curious to know about how the two of you met.

    I guess this also applies to INTJs who are in a relationship. Where did you met your partner?

    Basically:
    Where?
    Why?
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    Both of them online, on IRC, even in the same chatchannel

    Why? You mean why did we date?
    Coz the first one wouldn't stop pursuing me and he was a dear friend. We had a great friends with benefits relationship

    And the second one wouldn't leave me alone online, which got us talking every night. I realized he was my soulmate. He took a little longer to realize it We got together exactly one year after we met.
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    Well, I've never been on a romantic relationship with any INTJ, but two of my closest friends are, and it's interesting because in both cases truth is I always had the feeling THEY were the ones chosing me. One of them kept lying at all the questions I did to him to make fun of me, and I found it amusing. The other one just came one day and said "you seem a strange but interesting person".
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    We sort of knew each other through mutual friends, and then started talking online one weekend when he was out of town. We spent probably 12 hours online that weekend, and just transfered the wonderful, banter-filled relationship to irl when he got back. We started dating two weeks later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by marmandahalf View Post
    We sort of knew each other through mutual friends, and then started talking online one weekend when he was out of town. We spent probably 12 hours online that weekend, and just transfered the wonderful, banter-filled relationship to irl when he got back. We started dating two weeks later.
    Yea, actually I wonder if INTJ might be best for FEMALE ENTP?
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    In a bar.


    Just kidding, in the science department at college. Isn't that how everyone meets INTJs if not online?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalMethod View Post
    Basically:
    Where?
    Why?
    a/ INTPc
    b/ INTPc
    "The only time I'm wrong is when I'm questioning myself."
    Haight

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    INTJ close friends:

    1. Engineering classes at college.

    2. Online - he IMed me because he wanted to show me something and I am an engineer. It was revealed (much later) that he thought my picture was kind of cute and that may have influenced the IM.

    (bonus almost dated: 3. my brother's best friend)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Synarch View Post
    Yea, actually I wonder if INTJ might be best for FEMALE ENTP?
    If you ask me this is the combination that can work quite well.

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    I cannot express how amazing my INTJ friends are. I only get truly attached to people rarely, mostly because of my own insanity, but the people I feel safest around are my INXJ's. They are some of the few who make an attempt to see past all the abundance of energy/schmoozing/challenging/weird. I don't know why they like me so much, but I'm working on keeping them.


    Looking back, my intense friendships with these people mostly started from me approaching them (because strangers are the best) and engaging them somehow, and then the next time I saw them they attacked me with damn interesting questions. It's a two step process, but I'll bet they could make process flow diagrams for this system.
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